Post#3 » Tue Mar 26, 2013 11:21 am
I would find out their own interest in rekindling their relationship first. Being "stuck" in a relationship they don't want will likely force them into the same patterns that destroyed the first one. They need to GROW their new relationship in different ways or it is pure insanity to think it will be any different.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing but expecting a different result.
In this regard they may need to grow some before they are "ready" to be back together. I advise let them help you decide when that will be. This DOES NOT mean they have to know how you plan to do it.
Just ask them "if there was a way to get back together, would you do it, and how would you do things differently."
My .02
I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I YHVH do all these things.