One thing you didn't mention is if you are doing the planetary colors and names and filling yourself with the appropriate color after you do the middle pillar ( the Attracting and Banishing Ritual). You have 2 options, Venus to attract love and Moon to attract the female. I recently had success layering two colors on top of another. For instance, you could do the Moon and puce, then when you are done with the moon, layer green on top of it or just replace it with Venus and emerald green.
BTW, puce is kind of a strange color, and many may not be familiar with it, but you can get an accurate representation of it here http://www.ernietheattorney.net/ernie_t ... ation.html