tedpa41 wrote:So I've been a lurker here for a long time and I've also used NAP for quite some years having a pretty good success. I was able to get people to stop bothering, used the success chant for work and the excite love to get my girlfriend (now ex).
Had some problems with my girlfriend and she ended up breaking up with me, I decided to use NAP to get her back but I think I am a bit confused about which chant should I use. I have been using the rekindle one for 4 days and nothing happened yet but I was thinking if I should go for excite love or the success one?
If all else fails look around you there are plenty of great or even better women around out there. You would not be the first man to get dumped and some even fall upwards and land better partners. I do like women. I would rather sit around and talk with women than sit in a freaking sports bar!! But I have never seen a solid gold pussy and I am not even curious!
Spot on point!
Geezuzss Kryest, if I had a nickel for every time I said something similar, Pablo, I could buy my own 747 and fly us all to Cancun for the weekend. I really do NOT understand this obsession where heteros and gays have with "I must have X back in my life!" Really?? So what happens if X is dead?!?! Hmmm? What then? You just give up on life? You need become mature about relationships. Maturity will show you that there's millions of people who are out there and many who would enjoy your company; any number of them would sleep with you and out of those a goodly number would most likely become your permanent S/O - so long as they knew you're not sniveling over someone else who dumped you. Right? You need to have maturity and self esteem for a relationship. Without those two things, you can't get yourself out of first gear and most likely she figured it out and just got rid of you fast.
Suggestion: if you're good at New Avatar Power, then make use of it! Now! (if you haven't already) Just write up what you liked about HER: personality wise, appearance, intelligence, emotions, then go for the background - family & social standing, career, friends & family members (remember what's her's is yours!), and so on. You want everything but a name or a face to put to it. THEN summon the appropriate NAP spirits and then read to them your desired woman. Instruct the spirits to find a few woman who FIT all of these desired attributes and put them in your path and to ensure they are interested in YOU - preferably one at a time.
Then it's up to you to date them until you and SHE come to the realization you're meant for one another. Done.
Now seriously, WHY is that so difficult for you or anyone to do? That's how I've met every S/O I've ever had as an adult after I became a practitioner. I let the spirits help me find someone that's ideal for what I want and who can deal with my BS (gods help her).